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Dahlia Daos's avatar

What kind of society would we have if we organised life around care and connection, rather than productivity? How would human relationships even look like if the quality of care we share in created healthy, attuned humans?

Gah. There are spaces of possibility we can't even imagine.

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Geoffrey Newton's avatar

Excellent article highlighting our greatest challenge to produce well adjusted and emotionally mature individuals. Ethan Crawley was only 12 when he walked into his school and killed 4 of his classmates and wounded 9 others. He was a latchkey child who drew bloody diagrams of dead children and wrote in his diary that he was on the edge, but nobody took any notice. We are the only species that has pronounced altricial development. Fetuses brains are too big for the birth canal, so nature devised altricial development from perinatal, new born, neonate, child, preteen adolescent through to adult, is the complete developmental arc, and children are very susceptible to stress especially chronic stress causes perseveration, and a inability to learn from mistakes and respond to social cues. Depressed children are more susceptible to amygdala hijack, and misreading people’s intentions, which may be linked to school shootings. It’s up to us to give our children the best possible chance to make the most of their lives.

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